The euphoric experience of falling in love may give you the illusion of having an intimate relationship. It's not that you're insincere about what you think and feel, but it's unrealistic to assume you and your spouse will never hurt each other in the future.  See omnystudio.com/listener for...

Sometimes you may say "I forgive you" but it's obvious by your behavior that you haven't. You won't be able to forgive if you haven't lifted the penalty of their offense. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.