Alex Kruger is a writer who recently published an essay with The New York Times’ Modern Love column.  What’s the “right” approach to dating? An organized and thoughtful effort, or a hands-off attitude that lets what will be, be? Or…are both Alex and Shani 100% right? This episode is FULL of explorations into modern singlehood, and all the little idiosyncrasies and anxieties that come with it. A must listen for anyone who feels like dating is happening to them, rather than the other way around, as well as anyone who feels a little out of control.  Modern Love: My Ridiculous Dating System by Alex Kruger Alex Kruger on Substack  What’s Right With You? podcast episode featuring Sara Eckel  April Patreon Episodes:  Representation Changes Attitudes with Rowan Ellis Unique Is Normal with Laura Behnke Sexuality Is An Energy with August McLaughlin (August’s book, Girl Boner) Join the Patreon for A Single Serving Podcast to get full access to all weekly podcast episodes in 2021.  Anti-Racism Resources For My White Friends & Readers Podcast logo by Johanna Pendley Podcast hosted on Buzzsprout Transcript of podcast via Otter Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)