Tonya Carter is a Relationship Transformation Coach joining the podcast to discuss life post-divorce and post-relationship. We explore authenticity, moving through our stories as opposed to becoming stuck inside them, and how transactional ideas of love aren't serving us in singlehood or in relationships. This episode also begins with a listener-inspired deep dive into "you're too picky," both how to respond to it and how to process and reframe it in our own minds. I loved this conversation with Tonya and I can't wait to have her back as a guest again. Tonya Carter's Website Tonya Carter on Instagram Order Tonya's book, Divorce Your Story My first book, A Single Revolution: Don't look for a match. Light one. publishes 10/26/21. Join my Patreon for access to a FULL READING of the book's introduction in an episode published September 6th, 2021 titled Shani's (Extremely) Special Announcement. You'll also have access to every podcast episode I've ever published, NEW episodes of this podcast every week, and access to the private Facebook group for Patrons only.  Shani's website Shani on Instagram Podcast P.O. Box 3436 Magazine Street #8110 New Orleans, LA 70115 Podcast hosted on Buzzsprout Transcript of podcast via Otter Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/shanisilver)