Dear Deva    Cyesterday I met this little 15 year old girl. Extremely intelligent, very nice and respectful young girl. She was in tears as she was over one of my nieces house because her mother's boyfriend basically put her out and she needed to move to her aunties house until her mother get a new place (which I felt In the energy  wouldn't happen). The pain I felt in this little girl that though she tried to persuade us that her mom stood up for her, she knew her mother put her boyfriend(s) above her.  This s**t needs to stop. This was not my experience as a kid and I'm a bit of a recluse but reading your page has opened my eyes to my surroundings. What is wrong with black women?