Episodes
This week Paula is joined by one of New Zealand's favourite actresses, Robyn Malcolm, to discuss her new show, After the Party, and how she took charge to co-create the show and character. She also discusses her varied career, putting political differences aside, things she would change about her past, and the best acting advice she ever received.  Warning: This episode does include discussions of eating disorders.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 10/28/23
Paula is back for another season, and she is kicking things off with Newstalk ZB drive host Heather du Plessis-Allan. They discuss the recent election, Heather's childhood spent in a Christian commune in South Africa, parenting, and her husband's recent health scare, before digging into how to hold people to account.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 10/21/23
For the last episode of this season, Paula is joined by broadcaster and host of The Traitors, Paul Henry. They discuss his varied career and his thoughts on the nation before digging into advice on how to live authentically and with confidence.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 07/22/23
On this week's episode, Paula is talking to psychologist Nigel Latta. They discuss the state of society and some of his dream projects to investigate, before talking his new show, You've Been Scammed, and advice for how to avoid falling victim. Plus, a surprising political revelation from Paula!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 07/15/23
For Paula's next guest, she's talking to Dr Lucy Hone, the author of Resilient Grieving. They discuss their personal experiences with grief, including how the loss of Hone's daughter changed her perspective on grief, and share advice for those struggling to grieve as well.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 07/08/23
For Paula's latest guest, she is joined by Te Kahukura Boynton, aka ‘the Māori Millionaire’. They discuss how Boynton got into personal finance and set her goal of becoming a millionaire at 25, before sharing advice she's picked up over the years to help others do the same thing.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 07/01/23
For Paula's next guest, she's talking to homegrown drag talent Anita Wigl'it. They discuss growing up religious, the power of drag and getting into the world of RuPaul's Drag Race, before Anita shares advice on how to stay positive in the face of adversity, after getting through trauma and hatred.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 06/24/23
On this week's episode, Paula is talking to the queen of unscripted TV, Dame Julie Christie. They discuss Julie's start in the industry, dealing with criticism and being made a dame, before getting into her advice on her work ethic, from how her childhood shaped her outlook, to her regrets over her work-life balance.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 06/17/23
On this week's episode, Paula is talking with former Prime Minister - and her old boss! - Sir John Key. They discuss their time in politics and how that impacted on Key's family before discussing his advice for success and finding your ambition.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 06/10/23
Paula's back for another season, and this episode she is talking goal setting with Sir Michael Hill. They talk his legendary career and his love of violins before digging into how setting goals 30 years at a time has transformed his life - and how it can help you as well.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 06/03/23
For the last episode of the season, Paula is joined by Married at First Sight Australia expert John Aiken. He dishes on his time living in Australia before digging deep into his 10 years on the reality TV hit, what he's learned from the contestants, and gives advice for those just starting to date or deep in their relationships.  New episodes of Ask Me Anything will return in June.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 04/01/23
On this week's episode, Paula is talking with reality TV star, businesswoman and 'kindness warrior', Cassie Roma. They discuss Roma's life in the US and her plans to return there, her coming out and experiencing homophobia, before Roma shares her advice on surviving the business world and life without compromising yourself or your beliefs.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 03/25/23
On this week's episode, Paula is chatting with singer, actress, Lady Killer and entertainment icon Tina Cross ahead of her new role in Wicked. They discuss her lengthy and varied career and her latest role, and share advice on how the 64-year-old star is still thriving even as she nears that pension! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 03/18/23
On this week's episode, Paula is joined by RNZ reporter and author of the new book, The Drinking Game, Guyon Espiner. They discuss why he went into journalism and the different fields he has worked in, as well as learrning Te Reo for his daughter, before they dig into both of their relationships with alcohol and drinking, and what people can do to help manage their drink better.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 03/11/23
Have you felt you've been a bit grumpier lately? On this week's episode, Paula talks to psychologist and author Jacqui Maguire about coping with disasters on a personal level, and dealing with living in permacrisis. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 03/04/23
On this week's episode, Paula talks to Newstalk ZB’s Barry Soper who has been reporting on politics for 43 years. In that time, he has covered 11 different prime ministers, from Robert Muldoon through to Chris Hipkins, and outlasted most of them in the hustle and bustle of the Beehive.And while he has left his role as political editor and moved to Auckland, the now-senior political correspondent and new dad has a lot to say about those he has covered during his time - including the most...
Published 02/25/23
On this week's episode, Paula talks with local drag icons Hugo Grrrl (George) and Miss Geena for a Pride Month special. They discuss drag, reality TV and their transition stories, before sharing advice and tips for people looking to be better rainbow allies.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 02/18/23
On the first episode for 2023, Paula is joined by broadcaster and Treasure Island star Matty McLean. They talk his recent wedding, growing support for LGBT+ issues, and his time on Breakfast, before getting advice for how to stand up for yourself - after Matty's last go at Celebrity Treasure Island dragged up some unresolved childhood issues! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 02/11/23
In this special summer bonus episode of Ask Me Anything, Paula is talking to Teina and Lichelle, two teens who have gone through the Graeme Dingle Foundation's Project K programme. After a year where all eyes were on problem teens and what should be done about them, Teina and Lichelle talk to Paula about the issues they've dealt with as teens, how the programme helped them, and what advice they have for parents and teachers dealing with difficult teens in the 21st century.  See...
Published 01/07/23
On this week's episode - the final for 2022 - Paula sits down with Max Key to talk launching a business. They discuss his time in the spotlight, his social media regrets, and dealing with anxiety, before discussing launching a business and what advice he has for those looking to get into property.  New episodes will return in February! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 12/17/22
On this week's episode, Paula is joined by broadcaster and founder of The Medicine Gap, Rachel Smalley. They discuss Smalley's time as a journalist and her year in the public service and what she learned there, before digging into her work with The Medicine Gap, highlighting the New Zealanders who are unable to access the medicines they need to treat their conditions.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 12/10/22
On this week's episode, Paula is joined by Outlander, House of the Dragon and The Hobbit actor Graham McTavish. They discuss his life in Scotland, his decision to move to New Zealand, the big projects he's worked on, and going to fan conventions like Armageddon. He also shares advice for surviving long days on set and other tips for aspiring actors.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 12/03/22
On this week's episode, Paula is joined by Bayleys head of insights, data and consulting, Chris Farhi. They discuss what is going on with the property market at the moment, what caused prices to rise and drop, and how close we are to seeing stability. He also shares advice for what sort of property to invest in, how to invest, and what different buyers at different stages need to know.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 11/26/22
On this week's episode, Paula is joined by celebrity chef and entrepreneur Simon Gault. They discuss his journey in the hospitality industry and how he got his start, the passion of his youth, and how becoming a father changed his life, before sharing advice on healthy eating and how to loss weight.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 11/19/22
On this week's episode, Paula is joined by former Football Ferns Dr Michele Cox and Maia Jackman to discuss their new book, Murdering Middle Age. They discuss how they got into their careers and the world of female sport, before sharing their advice and what they've learned about middle age, menopause, and loving your life.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Published 11/12/22