Emma is joined by comedian Oscar Aydin to talk about navigating newfound singledom, learning gender through being a child model, and why guys always get thrown on the grill. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Oscar helps a listener whose fiancé doesn't seem to care at all about his appearance. Then, Emma asks Oscar anything from straight men acting different around gay men, love languages, manifestation, and detaching shame from sex. In the Apology Surrogate segment, Oscar gives a listener closure after her boss embarrassed her at work. Finally, they wrap with a lightning round about jock jams, oral sex, and being perceived. Email us at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @itsoscaraydin Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices