Emma is joined by social psychologist, Kinsey Institute Research Fellow, and host of the Sex and Psychology podcast, Dr. Justin Lehmiller. They get into it about sex, kinks, monogamy vs non monogamy, and what "normal" even means. In the Why Do Men? Segment, Justin answers an email from a listener whose sex drive isn't as high as her partner's. Then, Emma asks Justin anything, from foreplay, to online dating, and relationship dynamics where one partner is queer and the other is straight. And finally, they wrap with a lightning round about fantasy vs reality, negging, incels, and Viagra. Email us at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at (201) 754-8351 with your AMA, Why Do Men?, and Apology Surrogate questions, and we’ll answer them in a future episode. Guest: @justinjlehmiller Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices