I might be the most important person in my life, but if you think about it I am not that important to others. It sounds rude, but I guess that's the rudeness I need. Maybe you are different from me, but I always wanted to be significant.  Eventually, all ended up in the present situation where I am afraid of being judged and look stupid.  Pretty solid limitation of free actions if you ask me.  So the spotlight effect is just another illusion that inhabited my head, but it might disappear soon. I'm working on that. Sleep well, kisses. Bye.