(BPJ #89). Setting a Table for Two #4. greatest goal in marriage is to have a joint career or aiding and encouraging each other to serve Hashem with love and joy; marriage isn't meant to heal you or "make you whole", Hashem wants you to do it yourself; having the healthy balance between intense closeness healthy distance; Email address for feedback, questions, and insights is [email protected], or to reach out via WhatsApp at +1 347 578 0669.