Our listener is so confused. Her heart is telling her one thing and her head another. Which should she listen to? And how can we stop ourselves from feeling guilty for speaking our truth? 'I moved to America 18 months ago with my two children. We moved for my husband's job it was a big decision as we have two small children. The plan was to move here for 3 years and save, come home and buy a house in Ireland, however I didn’t realise how much of an opportunity of life we had moving here especially for my children and we have come to love it here! I do have family that want me to come home and raise my children in Ireland. I think they feel I’m taking them away from them...' Thank you Symprove for supporting Better Days, click here to buy. Gerry Hussey's event Soul Sunday. Join the Seven Day Set Up challenge.