Episodes
This week we're talking about success! Do we need successful friends in order to thrive? Are we really the sum of our friendships? What does it really mean to be successful under capitalism? Is success even a worthwhile pursuit? Enjoyyy!!! And let's continue the conversation on socials! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON...
Published 05/31/20
This week we're digging into the drama surrounding Lana Del Rey & Doja Cat. We have an honest conversation about race, antiblackness and practical ways to navigate living in a white supremacist world and tackling racism head-on. JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 05/25/20
This week we're talking all about love and vulnerability! Where do we learn to love? How do we undo our toxic ideas about love? and how can we become more vulnerable in our relationships! :) JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 05/18/20
This week we're discussing social media, toxic positivity and the illusion of permanence and happiness. This is probably one of our more philosophical discussions, so if you're ready to spiral, let's goooooooo :) JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 05/11/20
This week we talked about class, clout, Caroline Calloway, privilege and how that all intersects with romance! What does class look like in 2020? is clout a more valuable currency than money? and how do we navigate financial dilemmas in our romantic relationships without making our relationships transactional? Enjoy!!!! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US...
Published 05/03/20
This week we're discussing solitude and morality! Why do some people need more human interaction than others? What do we owe each other? kindness, compassion, or just basic human decency? And; how should we relate to each other JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 04/26/20
This week we're discussing some relationship dilemmas: how do you live with your partner without killing them? How do you navigate cross-cultural dating and how to set boundaries during corona. Enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 04/20/20
This week we're all over the place! We have a chat about communicating our expectations and boundaries with our friends. Maintaining relationships with your depressed friends. And what relationships will look like after corona. Enjoy! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 04/13/20
This week we're playing a game of Reflex! We talk about the benefits and pitfalls of anger and sorrow, we talk about learning to deal with people's negative perceptions of us and we talk about why we will NOT be having moderators in our facebook group. Enjoy!! JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR...
Published 04/05/20
This week we're talking everything from corona, to race, to conspiracy theories. What does it really mean to be a good ally? how do we protect our mental health during quarantine season? what is corona here to teach us? JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 03/29/20
This week we're playing Reflex! We talk about the lessons we've learnt throughout the years, adulting, the education system and we dissect what it really means to live a good life. Enjoy! BUY REFLEX THE CARD GAME HERE: https://flexfactory.store/collections/reflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR...
Published 03/22/20
This week we're talking about the coronavirus epidemic! why is everyone stockpiling toilet paper? What is corona here to teach us? Will capitalism survive the wrath of corona? SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo:...
Published 03/15/20
This week we're getting philosophical: we chat about the law of attraction and how it intersects with privilege. Do we give ourselves too much credit for our success? How much does the law of attraction play into our delusions about ourselves? And; is there a fundamental purpose and reason for human existence??? WHAT IS IT!!!! ENJOY SPIRALING! SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON...
Published 03/08/20
This week we're talking about pretty privilege! how is beauty affected by the white gaze? is beauty for leisure or survival? is it democratic or elitist? We talk about this and so much more. Enjoy -and don't forget to follow us on socials! SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 03/01/20
This week we're talking about self-love! Is it realistic?? can social media and self-love coexist? AND; is depression the new hourglass figure?? how do we learn to love ourselves when we've internalized depression as the coolest new personality trait? SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 02/16/20
TRIGGER WARNING! This week we're talking about abusive celebrities, complicated legacies and how to live alongside abusers - particularly when they're in close proximity to you. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo:...
Published 02/09/20
Today we're answering all your questions about sex! We talk about how to avoid performative sex, navigating sexual incompatibility and most importantly - how to give excellent head lol. And so much more! Listen now! SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 02/03/20
In this week’s episode, we talk about RACE! Why is it so hard for POC and white people to understand each other? Should philanthropy always be virtuous? And is ending racism a worthwhile pursuit? Click to listen and let's continue the conversation on social media! SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR...
Published 01/26/20
This week we're answering your questions about love and relationships: from getting over heartbreaks, the line between desperation vs assertiveness and attachment styles. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo:...
Published 01/19/20
This week we're talking about everything from love languages, self-awareness, astrology and whether we can ever escape being trash. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex:...
Published 01/12/20
This week we're talking about plastic surgery, body modification, self-love and the thin line between tanning culture and blackfishing. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex:...
Published 12/29/19
in this episode, we talk about beauty pageants, feminism and whether or not to persist in making the world a better place. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex:...
Published 12/22/19
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the ethics of cheating, trust issues and letting go of resentment. Enjoy! SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex:...
Published 12/08/19
yaaaay another guest episode! we talk to Mukundwa about the difficulties of maintaining adult friendships, how to break up with your friends and how to navigate forgiveness without compromising yourself SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE...
Published 12/01/19
Incels!! Why do they exist? why are men so entitled to women? and what is the relationship between capitalism, patriarchy and incels. SUPPORT US ON PATREON: www.patreon.com/boboandflex JOIN US ON FACEBOOK: www.facebook.com/groups/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/boboandflex FOLLOW US ON TWITTER: twitter.com/boboandflex SUBSCRIBE TO OUR YOUTUBE CHANNEL: www.youtube.com/channel/UCplGygL_igEZA9uYvWB75SA Instagram: Bobo: www.instagram.com/bobo.matjila Flex:...
Published 11/24/19