“Chris…. I liked your episode about “Inside the Mind of an Avoidant.” But please do more self-work before claiming to be a “relationship coach” or hosting a podcast named “confidence”. I recognize you said in one of your episodes that your own attachment style might be a mix between “dismissive” and “anxious”. But, please hear me out: some of what you say in your episodes are disturbing. You flip-flop between referring to your long distance thing as a “situation”, but I’ve also heard you call it a “relationship.” Multiple times an episode, you flip/flop on this. I hear you say a lot about how much you like her…. But literally a minute later, you tell us you’re “operating as if you’re single, because it’s long distance.” You’ve also claimed to not be a sex addict. That’s fair; I don’t know you Chris. But I am listening to an episode where you say “this relationship isn’t real because I cannot touch her, etc.” In a different episode, I hear you tell us that you’re struggling not to have sex with anyone for two months. Two months? Also the part where you tell us where, on at least one occasion, you’re worried that when your “situationship/ long distance girl” doesn’t answer her phone, you start to think she’s cheating on you. But in the same story, you admit to hanging out with another woman, alone, at your house, under the influence of mind-altering substances. It honestly sounds like something a textbook, insecure cheater would say to appease the woman he’s cheating on. Long story short: I hope more naive, perhaps younger men do not take your advice. I hope your “long distance girl” (who genuinely sounds like a good person), considers that she might be dating a narcissist.”
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02/16/24