Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you.  The discussion emphasizes the importance of taking time and sense-checking your journey to avoid sub-frenzy. We look at how communication, negotiations, and defining core desires are crucial in creating a successful dynamic. We discuss the importance of developing a support community and attending kinky events to connect with like-minded people and learn new skills.  Join us as we celebrate progress and growth on the kinky journey while being kind to ourselves. Topics Discussed Mistakes beginner submissives make repeatedly.How to avoid sub-frenzy and take things slow and steady.Developing communication skills and the importance of negotiations between the sub and Dominant.Identifying red flags and looking out for your safety.How to define core desires, create a sex menu and develop a supportive community.The importance of community and interacting with like-minded people.Society's changing views on normal sexual behaviour.The Art of Submission course designed for beginner submissives.-------------- For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). The Kinky Events online community. Connect with like-minded Doms and subs in a safe, anonymous, consensual space to discuss D/s (not a dating site) (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/dom-sub-community/). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...