If love was just a chemical attraction, it would be love at first sight. But why rush something of greatness. Love takes time. As I was lying with my husband reflecting over the day, I asked him if he had a headliner for my episode today? Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT He actually said yes! I was a little surprised as this was late at night and he usually checks out early when it comes to deep thinking. But I was intrigued. So I asked more questions. He continued to say how many refer to "love at first sight" as that deep infatuation with someone. It's truly a chemical reaction that draws you near each other with the end intention of a physical encounter. However, true love comes over time. In order to love someone, you have to get to know them over time and see their heart, who they are on the inside. But what happens is that life gets complicated. We want to live with what feels good. But those feelings can be a distraction. Don't make permanent decisions with temporary feelings. The K.I.S.S. ~ Don't make permanent decisions with temporary feelings! When the going gets tough in marriage, don't rely solely on the feelings. They can lead you astray and put you in a position that you later regret or question how you got there. Distinguish between facts and feelings. This is where you focus on the know-good versus the feel-good. Double-down on your values. If what you quickly see as a way out, does it support your values? If it does not, then you better think about taking a step back. Dedicate your heart to take risks. Work beyond what is easy. Don't throw in the towel because you're finished. Take a step back, understand the challenge, and be intentional with your actions. Take AIM on what matters. Don't make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings. Love is worth the work! Love takes time. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT!  "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"   Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify and Pandora. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here.  http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7 Contact me at [email protected] THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow   PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE  https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users  https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677   Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/   DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT  http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact 2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora! 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You c