In This Episode You Will Learn About:  How to control your emotions when you are tested in tough situations The best ways to recognize your negativity & PIVOT in the moment Why relationships are everything & what it means to show you care EMPOWERING yourself by focusing on what you can CONTROL  Resources: Go to ro.co/confidence, and pay just $99 for your first month, then $145 a month after that. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/monahan Kajabi is offering a free 30-day trial to start your business if you go to Kajabi.com/confidence Get your KPI Checklist, absolutely free, at NetSuite.com/MONAHAN.  Want to do more and spend less like Uber, 8x8, and Databricks Mosaic? Take a free test drive of OCI at oracle.com/MONAHAN. Get 15% off your first order on www.jennikayne.com when you use code CONFIDENCE15 at checkout. Call my digital clone at 201-897-2553!  Visit heathermonahan.com Reach out to me on Instagram & LinkedIn Sign up for my mailing list: heathermonahan.com/mailing-list/  Overcome Your Villains is Available NOW! Order here: https://overcomeyourvillains.com  If you haven't yet, get my first book Confidence Creator Show Notes:  I am officially 50 and this week has been a non stop party! My friends totally outdid themselves and I am overcome with their thoughtfulness and love. But even surrounded by positivity, we can be caught off guard by a negative or unwanted comment. That’s exactly what happened to me and I almost spiraled out. But when something like that happens, it is so important to be aware of our emotions and not let them control us. Never react! We must give ourselves time to process and RESPOND instead. Stop feeling caught up in negativity and empower yourself to rise above! Need the step by step on how? Listen in!