In this heartfelt episode of 'Dadsense; Vikaash Khdloya, a Chartered Accountant and erstwhile CEO of a large company with a deep connection to his middle-class roots, opens up about the journey that shaped his approach to fatherhood. Reflecting on a childhood filled with cherished memories, thanks to the quality time with his father, a busy businessman, made sure to spend with him, Vikash explores how these experiences influenced his own parenting style. He shares candidly about the mistakes he made, particularly in his early years as a father, where the pursuit of conventional success of a father in India overshadowed the importance of being present with his kids. However, a turning point came when he realized that true happiness and success stem from within, not from external achievements. Inspired by the book Top 5 Regrets of the Dying, Vikash began to re-prioritize his life, focusing on the joys of parenting and the invaluable moments with his children. Throughout the podcast, Vikash offers valuable insights into setting boundaries between work and family, the importance of being vulnerable with your kids, and breaking down gender biases. He emphasizes the significance of allowing children to experience joy and the importance of encouraging them without pressure. Vikash also shares his two essential mantras for a balanced life: managing time effectively and delivering on expectations with flexibility. This episode is a must-listen for any parent striving to navigate the complexities of modern fatherhood while maintaining a meaningful connection with their children. Chapters: 2:39 Introduction to the conversation 4:54 Cherished childhood memories 10:09 Advice from Subhasis's father 12:24 Navigating teenage years 14:49 Parenting goals 18:14 Life-changing book "Top 5 Regrets of the Dying" 20:59 Early days of parenthood 25:19 How parenting changes you 27:49 Kids mirror our behavior and balance work-life 32:09 How kids notice everything 35:54 The importance of fatherly love 39:29 Teaching vulnerability and starting a new chapter 43:04 Reliving kids' milestones 46:29 Unconditional love and support from kids 49:54 Shaping unique personalities 54:19 Raising open-minded kids 58:29 Enjoying activities with kids and managing expectations 1:02:29 Embracing imperfection and prioritizing time Parenting Advice, Fatherhood, Dads and Parenting, Parenting Tips, Parenting Journey, Work-Life Balance, Fatherhood Chronicles, Raising Kids, Modern Parenting, Parenting Experiences, Dad Stories, Parenting Lessons, Parent-Child Relationship, Fatherhood Insights, Parenting Reflections, Parenting Challenges, Parenting Questions, Parenting Podcast, Descript Edited Video, Family Conversations.