Feeling butterflies with a match may seem like a good sign for your romantic future, but many times it's a window to the past. Damona busts The Chemistry Myth so that you can stop missing the  true markers of relationship success and stop second guessing your dating choices. Plus, she answers this spicy Dear Damona question: How fast is too fast to have sex with a new person? Get Damona’s bestselling book “F the Fairy Tale” in ebook, audiobook, and hardcover everywhere books are sold (FtheFairyTaleBook.com) Then join our Book Squad! If you review “F The Fairy Tale” and submit it at DamonaHoffman.com/booksquad before July 31st, you’ll be invited to an exclusive Q&A session with Damona! This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Get convenient, online therapy with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/DATESANDMATES today to get 10% off your first month. TIMESTAMPS (00:00:10) The Chemistry Myth  (00:00:55) Personal Experience with Chemistry Myth  (00:04:27) Physiological Aspect of Chemistry  (00:05:33) Dear Damona Question on Slow Love  (00:07:42) Tossing out Timelines  (00:08:41) Safe Sex and Boundaries  (00:11:13) Joining the Book Squad  (00:12:24) Conclusion and Invitation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices