Too often our desire to create rule of thumbs about what type of person is safe and what type of person is dangerous becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that leads us to the exact danger we sought to avoid. Today we’re exploring the logical fallacies associated with perceiving “childish men” as safer than hyper-masculine “alpha males”.  We’ll also discuss:  Why you can’t “speed run” getting to know someone  Why purposely not talking to a dating option isn’t “playing games” Why its problematic to conflate hyper masculinity with violence and overlook the dangers of a purposely curated “childish” persona And on Patreon we’ll cover: How domestic work is used as a tool of abuse The oppressive nature of viewing children as objects of joy How women gaslight themselves into accepting discomfort and disrespect in relationships How women use their emotionally available friends as life rafts to endure inconsiderate men (instead of leaving) And more… Be sure to join us on Patreon to check out the full ad-free episode! - Difficult Conversations Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/difficultconversations - Difficult Conversations Spotify:  - Kady’s Twitter:   / KadyRoxz - Kady’s Instagram:   / KadyRoxz.Official - Kady’s Tiktok:   / KadyRoxz - Kady’s YouTube Channel:  @KadyRoxz