Ever wonder why your ex/soon-to-be-ex and past lovers seem so different but yet so similar? How interesting that you were promised the sun, the moon and stars, by both, only to be left empty and shattered with the realization that they all promised one thing, seemed to act one way, and then just ... poof ... flipped the switch and left. Or why is it that you find yourself attracted to people with substance or communication and intimacy issues?