Today we have an anonymous question from a mum who's got a happy go lucky teenager, happy to coast through life, as well as a husband who is coasting through the chores with his earbuds in. Does she need to change either of these behaviours?  In this episode: Giving kids autonomy Force creates resistance Perspective Upside-Downside conversation Connection Boundaries, expectations, finding compromise Explore underlying dynamics Related Links: #754 Why Doing Their Best Might Not Be the Best The Biggest Relationship Mistakes We All Make  Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletter Leave a voice memo here or email your questions/comments to [email protected] Become a Happy Families Member today See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.