If you’re joining us for the first time, this podcast is an explorative conversation about the Enneagram, pop culture examples and it is unstructured. Sometimes it includes conversations that aren’t about the Enneagram. We learn as you learn, we’re not presenting information as experts. We start this episode by going on a rant about Kourtney Kardashian and Poosh. Fast forward to the 20-minute mark if you’re looking to skip the intro. In this episode we talk about: How 9s (can when fixated) merge themselves with other people’s lives We explore how 9s and 4s work together The tragic mind cycle of a 4 Uncomfortable relationship conversations and Enneagram conflict styles Celebrity examples of 9 and 4’s (we couldn’t find any we made them up) We honestly ended this episode having more questions about how this couple works together because we don’t have a lot of examples, email us if you’re in a 9 + 4 couple and tell us your secrets, we'd love to know 👀 Resources for today’s episode: Helen Palmer’s The Enneagram in Love and Work: Understanding Your Intimate and Business Relationships, Enneagram Institute Intro/Outro Background Hero Media https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ5OGVNy1Lidem0BwozhUuw