Habits & Health episode 99 with Tom Glaser, a Licensed Psychologist and life coach with over 35 years of experience, Tom is also a bestselling author and yoga instructor. We discuss compassion, listening, how to find the right person to work with and a lot more. Tom's book, “Full Heart Living: Conversations with the Happiest People I Know,” is an amazon.com bestseller. Whether counseling, writing, or teaching, his passion is for helping people live their best lives flows through.   Topics discussed in this episode: 03:01 Why Tom became a psychologist 04:19 If we'd lived their lives... 08:15 Clients being open to change 11:51 What qualities should you look for when seeking a life coach? 14:35 Why did you also train to be a life coach? 17:21 What types of psychology Tom studied 18:09 AEDP 20:22 Being perfect 22:55 Taking total responsibility 23:55 Do many of your clients give them self enough self-compassion? 24:58 Younger generations get criticised a lot by the media 27:29 How some teachers can kill creativity 29:38 Why did you call your book, Full Heart Living? 30:00 Things that happier people do 32:22 What do you hope people will get from your book? 33:46 Relationships 35:29 Who is the book aimed at? 37:30 When did you start writing the book? 37:59 Experiences Tom has had at his book talks 40:22 Will there be a follow-up book? 43:46 Listening to someone 44:43 Quote on deep listening 46:04 Being a conduit 47:52 Yoga 52:49 Tom's social media details Full shownotes including a transcription available at: https://tonywinyard.com/tom-glaser/  Habits & Health links: Website - tonywinyard.com Facebook Page - facebook.com/TonyWinyard.HabitsAndHealth Facebook Group - facebook.com/groups/habitshealth Twitter - @TonyWinyard Instagram - @tony.winyard LinkedIn - uk.linkedin.com/in/tonywinyard YouTube How to leave a podcast review - tonywinyard.com/how-to-leave-a-podcast-review/ Details of online workshops to create habits for health - tonywinyard.com/training/ Are you in control of your habits or are they in control of you? Take my quiz to find out - tonywinyard.com/quiz