Drewby is a 32 year old identifying as gay and enjoying kink aspects such as furry, cuckold, degradation, and he’s newly exploring eproctophilia. With his partner he’s been able to play around with the fart fetish but Drewby, who is also an erotica writer, would enjoy combining the elements of cuckoldry and eproctophilia in the bedroom with a “bull,” a term for the person coming in to perform sex on one partner while the other partner watches. We get into some of the presumed origins of Drewby’s fetishes including the jealousy over a previous partner which we talk about as a possible ego defense mechanism. We may find ourselves trying to protect the self from trauma by creating and believing a situation in which we can see ourselves as a willing participant rather than someone being harmed by another’s actions. Together we also get into some of the media we grew up on which featured fart fetish themes and the difficulties of connecting with a bull that is into the cuckoldry and role play.  Also in this episode we get into the importance of sexual exploration, the pure joy of laughter, keeping ourselves grounded when doing fetish in real life versus our fantasies, and Drewby helps give some more nuance to the practice of furry. We also share some thoughts on whether cuckold or eproctophilia is more stigmatized and why. Find the podcast and resources at FartFetishPodcast.com  Intro/Outro Music: Le Freak by RAGE from YouTube Music Library