In this episode of "The Fatherhood Podcast," Tanner, Branden, and Eric delve into a deeply emotional and often unspoken aspect of fatherhood—the fear and preparation for worst-case scenarios, such as the potential loss of a partner during childbirth. The conversation begins with Tanner sharing his anxieties about his wife's safety during pregnancy, sparked by a sudden health scare. This leads to a broader discussion on the inherent risks of life and parenting, the importance of preparation, and how to face one's fears with practicality and support. The hosts explore the value of having life insurance, creating a safety net, and establishing a plan for unforeseen events. They emphasize the significance of open communication with partners about fears and wishes, ensuring that, in the event of tragedy, the surviving parent can honor the other's parenting values and desires. Branden and Eric share personal stories and insights, highlighting the balance between being present for your children and providing for them. They discuss how responsibilities and roles within a family might change over time, reflecting on their own experiences with parenting challenges and shifts in household dynamics. This episode serves not only as a candid discussion about the fears associated with fatherhood and the unpredictability of life but also as a reminder of the strength found in planning, communication, and community. It underscores the necessity of facing fears head-on, not as a solitary burden, but with the support of loved ones and the knowledge that preparation can alleviate some of the weight of these daunting possibilities. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own safety nets, to have meaningful conversations with their partners, and to approach the joys and fears of fatherhood with an open heart and a prepared mind.