“The deepest way in which we are right or wrong, is in our way of being towards others.”  This week I continue telling you a little more about the book, The Anatomy of Peace by the Arbinger Institute.   I share a few stories from the book, Avi's story of mowing the lawn.    With these stories, I help illustrate how we begin to think of people, including our family members, as annoying or unreasonable. We then start to see them as objects and then because of that we begin to invite more war. I then share a collusion diagram.  The most important understanding is not just about our actions but our way of being towards one another.   For more info and show notes:  www.findingthefloor.com/ep178 I would love to hear from you! You can reach meend me at [email protected] or dm @findingthefloor on instagram. Thanks for listening!! Thanks to Seth Johnson for my intro and outro original music. I love it so much!