Love yourself first, everything will be alright! Anyone who is in love sometimes becomes more "generous", they are willing to risk everything to love. They love others more than themselves, which causes them to gradually become painful. Even the pain that the opponent cannot see or feel. In the end, you are just a fool who loses the "me" to others to "give" the bad things. That is not selfish. That's how you "give back" to your body and increase your self-worth. When you know how to take care of yourself, you are capable (cepable) of loving and bringing happiness to others. However, it is not always thinking about yourself first, not selfishly seeking personal happiness. Self-love and selfishness are two completely different concepts, but the line between them is very thin. We should be alert to know when to stop.