Episodes
Ken discusses areas of gay men's relationships that can feel out of balance, and how to re-establish fairness and equality in those areas for the long term. 
Published 05/18/23
Ken discusses some unusual and unique considerations for gay men when discovering a partner has "cheated" or broken an agreement, with tips on how to understand layers of nuances for healing. 
Published 04/30/23
Ken reviews the top six factors for gay men in breaking a monogamy agreement in gay male relationships, and what the "fix" for each one is. 
Published 04/25/23
Ken discusses the history of LGBT civil rights activism and how we can all contribute in our own ways to the movement. 
Published 04/08/23
Ken gives tips on how to navigate mixing a new boyfriend with your existing group of friends or family, and how to cope with the most common challenges. 
Published 03/19/23
Ken discusses the functions and purposes that casual hookups for gay men can be, and the importance of affirming our own sexual self-empowerment. 
Published 03/04/23
Ken gives tips on the life lessons gay men can learn from actors in the entertainment industry, about character, sex, and telling our stories.
Published 02/05/23
Ken discusses how to cope when our mentors have flaws: parents, teachers, professors, bosses, work mentors, and therapist/coaches, and how to cope when they disappoint us. 
Published 01/23/23
Ken discusses how to make positive changes in the new year in how you approach your sex life in your mind, heart, and body. 
Published 01/09/23
Ken attended the 2022 CLAW (Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend) Conference in Los Angeles, and gives tips from the kink education seminars for gay men he attended there. 
Published 12/12/22
Ken discusses how gay men can cope with the frustrations of being single when you want a partner, and how we can rally our internal and external resources to be at our best. 
Published 11/06/22
Ken discusses gay men overcoming specific traumas related to the workplace, family of origin, political, and social/peer areas, and tips for how to cope with them triumphantly. 
Published 10/19/22
Ken discusses gay men overcoming specific traumatic experiences that can be medical, legal, academic, or criminal, and tips for coping triumphantly with each of them. 
Published 10/19/22
Ken discusses the rewards and challenges for gay men with pets, and some cognitive/behavioral coping strategies for each of them. 
Published 09/19/22
In the second of this two-part episode, Ken discusses more "deal breakers" in gay men's dating, and gives tips for their alternatives. 
Published 08/31/22
In Part One of this two-part episode, Ken gives guidance on six of the most common dating "no-go's" for gay men, how to cope with them and their alternatives. 
Published 08/23/22
A discussion of the mental health and sociio-political impacts of Monkey Pox for gay men, and how to cope with them. 
Published 08/07/22
Gay men's specialist psychotherapist, life/career/executive coach, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, gives an overview of gay men and recovering from trauma to reclaim our lives. 
Published 07/10/22
In this Part Two of "Gay Men and Kink: Sensory Enhancements to Sex: Materials, Circumstances, and Fabrics: An Overview", Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, gives information on how leather, rubber, and other materials can be used in erotic play for gay men. 
Published 06/28/22
Licensed psychotherapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, provides an overview for gay men of the materials and circumstances for kink play in a safe and consensual context. 
Published 06/20/22
Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, offers stories about LGBT Pride Season 2022, and the value of the summer vacation romance. 
Published 06/05/22
Gay men's specialist licensed psychotherapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist offers perspectives on reconciling your religious beliefs with your sexuality. 
Published 05/19/22
Gay men's specialist sex therapist Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, gives tips for gay male couples to manage mismatched libidos and desire discrepancy. 
Published 05/01/22
Ken discusses how to focus on the five senses - sight, hearing, smell, taste, and touch -- to enhance a gay man's sexual experience, reduce anxiety, and improve sexual functioning. 
Published 04/12/22
Ken gives guidance on eight common pitfalls in dating for gay men, and strategies for how to cope with each of them. 
Published 03/29/22