Let’s Learn from Love Island Contestant’s Mistakes and Highlight the Emotional Immaturity that exists in the show! From Promoting Narcissism, to glorifying lower-level Instincts, to encouraging us that it’s healthy & normal to gain validation through how you look, fake, play games, achieve and are willing to defend yourself by ruining another’s reputation without remorse. It’s surface level connection, Wounded feminine and masculine alignment to connect It's never telling the truth. Its persona and performance orientated. It's a far-cry from vulnerable connection. When one is vulnerable it’s usually blown up on media and shamed, you’re made into a meme, or a target to gossip about inside the show. Chaos. This teaches us that vulnerability and integrity is a dangerous rather than a courageous and necessary thing. We’re conditioned to believe drama + gossip is a norm in relationships. That strength is in being able to manipulate, take high risks, and have no remorse, and show a perfect mask of who we are. Essentially promoting narcissism as OK. Rather than BE true, real, and open just what our inner child craves. This association to vulnerability closes the window to connection. The VERY channel to get to empathise, understand, and connect DEEPLY with our loved ones. So let’s use vulnerability as a great test in dating to see if the other person is ever a match, rather than run away from it, and fall into our primal/instinctual, lower-level self that settles for less. In this Episode you'll learn:  - How the Primal Psyche takes over our behaviours - More about Seductive Tricks we unconsciously used to be liked - What Settling looks like vs. Striving for a Self-Expressive Fulfilling Relationship - How to Date with Higher Intentions + Healthy Expectations - The Triggers, Energy, and Emotional Immaturity that's Present in Human Connection. Amongst Much More! Here's to learning from our human experience, eachother and understanding we need not pretend, posture or filter ourselves to please others as God is present in us all.  If you loved this episode, get the word out here: https://bit.ly/hearttoheartpodcast 💰Become a Supporter: https://anchor.fm/joshcampbell/support 🏠The Hub: www.joshcampbell.co 🎁FREE Heal Your Heartbreak Course:https://bit.ly/healyourheartbreak 💪1:1 Coaching Program: https://www.joshcampbell.co/services/private-coaching/ 🤳Do it for the Gram: https://www.instagram.com/josh.campbell  👥Join the FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/healthhunk/ 🎥Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/HealthHunk?sub_confirmation=1 --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/joshcampbell/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshcampbell/support