Chris Lloyd is an associate professor of learning and teaching at the University of Hertfordshire. Chris also writes poetry and short stories - his first poetry pamphlet is Pick Up Your Feelings. We talk about deciphering desire in the digital age, how our online life shapes our experience of the world, and why poetry is a good medium for exploring the contemporary queer experience. Host: Gareth Johnson Twitter: @gtvlondon How To Date Men is presented by Gaydar.net - the online dating specialists that have been helping men come together for over 25 years.