This episode, we're joined by our friend Andee to talk about our different experiences with Respectability Politics and Tone Policing. You can find Andee by just... googling "anagramofbrat". That's her, no question. Please take a couple minutes to fill out this survey... it would help us IMMENSLY as we try and improve the quality of the show - bit.ly/saythissurvey Story Music: "From Mt. Itoi With Love [EarthBound]" by The OneUps from their album Part Seven Ta-Nehisi Coates has an incredibly clear explanation for why white people shouldn’t use the n-word - https://bit.ly/3ngSCzZHow To Tell Someone They Sound Racist - https://youtu.be/b0Ti-gkJiXcAs a "man hating Feminist" I feel like I care more about men than literally every conservative or MRA I have ever spoken to. - Tweet by Nicole - https://bit.ly/34jX5taHades by Supergiant Games - https://bit.ly/30tr28UBorgen - https://www.netflix.com/title/70302482Borgen is back: here's why you should catch up before its Netflix return - https://bit.ly/3jrMOla Follow I Shouldn't Have To Say This at @SayThisCast Email us at [email protected] Episodes come out twice a month! You can subscribe to I Shouldn't Have to Say This on Apple Podcasts, Googly Play, Spotify, Stitcher, and more! If you'd like to support the show, you can become a Patron at Patreon.com/saythiscast where you can suggest topics for shows, and listen to each episode a day early! We'll even thank you on air for your generosity.  You could also buy us a Ko-fi at ko-fi.com/saythiscast! All our music, including our theme song "Mario Bay Breeze (Super Mario 64)", performed by Anthony Lofton & Mustin, is from the album More Than Mario, which you can purchase here: http://smarturl.it/dnmmario Find more of Mustin's work at store.mustinenterprises.com] Follow Nicole on Twitter: @Jackof3Trades Janra's Twitter is @PressStartLock. You can join him every Tuesday at 10pm and Friday at 3pm (both EST) on his twitch channel for political chats! twitch.tv/pressstartmorlock This podcast is a member of the Planetside Podcast Network. Visit Planetsidepodcasts.com to find other Planetside Productions! Find out more at http://saythiscast.com Send us your feedback online: https://pinecast.com/feedback/saythiscast/7ec10f73-a68e-43dc-91a8-d5badbcaf909