It Takes a Village - Motherhood Revisited | Marlene Hofer | Grow Human
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“To describe my mother would be to write about a hurricane in its perfect power. Or the climbing, falling colors of a rainbow.” – Maya Angelou Listen on Apple, Spotify or any of your favorite Podcast players. Meet Marlene Hofer Marlene Hofer is a Psychiatrist, Psychotherapist, and Postpartum Doula, who passionately champions women’s causes. She’s not only dedicated to her work but also to fostering a supportive community for mothers in Zurich, Switzerland. Marlene’s journey intersects with that of #impact founder Regina Larko, her close friend of over two decades, starting from their days as Sinology students at the University of Vienna.In this episode, Marlene and Regina talk about something that is very close to both of their hearts. You will hear them talk about an adventure that’s both beautiful and heartbreaking, something that fills them personally with so much love, joy but also rage and despair. The Emotional Spectrum of Motherhood “Love, joy, rage, despair.” These are just a few of the emotional coordinates on the map of motherhood within the complex system mothers find themselves.Marlene elaborates on the multifaceted nature of these feelings and invites us to explore the depths of how we personally experience motherhood. The Hardest Thing About Becoming a Mom What’s the hardest thing about becoming a mom? Marlene and Regina reflect on the challenges, offering vulnerable insights into the profound changes that they have experienced in their own lives as they became mothers. “And while it makes perfect sense , that the mother and the baby are a unit even after the baby is born (…) That’s the human condition that the women and the kid are connected but that’s why it’s also so easy and a real pitfall that women lose themselves in the process. They give so much and they dissolve. They do not even transform in the process of becoming a mother (…) their boundaries get all mixed up.”Marlene Hofer Building “The Village” Marlene is building a nurturing community for mothers, aptly named “The Village.” It’s not just a community; it’s a safe space for mothers to find support and understanding. Mothering the Mother What does this expression mean to Marlene, and how does it translate into her work and advocacy for mothers? “Mother is a verb” Marlene Hofer Marlene challenges conventional ideas of power, portraying motherhood as a bottom-up force, the root of family and society, an entity that transcends traditional power dynamics. The Birth of Postpartum Doula Work “How did your postpartum doula work come to be?” They explore.Marlene shares her story – a tale of passion, empathy, and the desire to support women during one of the most transformative phases of their lives. A Passion for Change Marlene advocates for unity among women and families, emphasizing the strength found in collective action against systemic challenges. Sharing experiences, whether online or offline,
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