Once a year since J* was 14 she would try insert a tampon. The Wellington woman, who wants to be known by her initial J, attempted the annual ritual without success for years, hoping that maybe one day it would finally work. What J didn't know at the time was that she has vaginismus, a medical condition where the vagina tightens up when you try insert something into it. Today on the show J chats to Cheree and Katie about the condition, how it's treated and how speaking up has helped both her and others.  We really loved having J on the show and hope you learn as much as we did! Warning, this episode discusses features lengthy discussions about sex and bodies so may not be appropriate for all listeners. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.