For Lillie's fourth date, she is taking comedian, actress and reality TV puzzle queen Brynley Stent for a bit of monkey spotting in Japan. They chat how her dark comedy can seep into the bedroom, Christmas and relationships, the most romantic mall in New Zealand, and why you shouldn't propose at an improv show.  Her shows, Soft Carnage and Sleigh, are on at The Basement in Auckland during November.    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.