Send us a Text Message.We often look outward for blame with the absence of accountability… simply because it’s the guilt and shame that we feel because we KNEW we saw those red flags and chose to ignore them… finding that outward blame then justifies why we made the mistake of staying knowing what we already knew…. When I did the episode "That can never be you, I choose me instead"… that’s what that was about… it wasn’t a bad feeling it was a memory of when I used to ignore red flags.Eve...