last week's episode was about the *art* of networking - how to get INTO the group. this week is about how you get kicked OUT of one. it's social faux pas, what NOT to do, and what gives us the ick. 𝙏𝙃𝙀 𝙅𝙊𝙈𝙊 𝙃𝙊𝙎𝙏𝙎 🎙️ 𝗘𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗪𝗲𝗶 (⁠@trykarat) - IG: https://www.instagram.com/erictway co-founder of Karat Financial, helping creators with finances 𝗖𝗵𝗹𝗼𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗵 ⁠(@chloeshih) IG: / https://www.instagram.com/chloe.shih/ tech product manager sharing perspectives on career, life advice, and living in your 30s. Editor: Lucas Falkavage and Jayna Benito 𝙎𝙊𝘾𝙄𝘼𝙇𝙎 🌸 ∙ instagram → https://www.instagram.com/jomo.pod ∙ youtube → https://www.youtube.com/@jomopod ∙ apple podcasts → https://bit.ly/jomo-apple ∙ tiktok → https://www.tiktok.com/@jomopod ∙ discord → https://discord.gg/udRmVpf3Xv 𝘾𝙃𝘼𝙋𝙏𝙀𝙍𝙎 📚 0:00 no queen, you slay! 0:45 the truth about our patreon... 2:23 eric's filthy toes 3:02 horseback riding with the BOYZ 7:29 feeling better about building this startup 9:30 being with people we don't like 10:04 chloe's events w/ Asian Founders Network and Beacons 11:16 eric pinging chloe's discord manager 11:45 chloe fumbled at beacons dinner 13:32 chloe's hosting lenalemon and stellachuu 14:18 the mystery of grandma 15:42 chloe's mental breakdown 16:50 so there was this creepy tech guy... 20:22 kicking people out + setting boundaries 21:51 doing reference checks on the creep 22:59 I just found out he did that... 23:49 when you don't like your friend's friend 27:40 what's socially NOT ok? 29:00 what gets you BANNED 30:13 who's +1 are they?! 31:43 the emperor has no clothes 34:02 they snuck in and used us, wtf? 36:05 the attachment style theory 39:01 your problem is my problem 40:18 resolving conflicts w family (daddy chill!) 42:31 resolving conflicts in relationships 44:48 chloe left her nonprofit 46:11 stanford's touchy feely learnings 49:25 the feedback given to eric 51:04 what to do with fringe friends you don't like 53:02 social faux pas! 57:03 how to pass the vibe check 1:01:51 story: chloe's mentor 1:04:01 people talk... 1:05:41 takeaways: u gotta be a hater 1:06:46 a study on cutting off your family 1:09:28 don't lie