In this video, I'll tell you why you shouldn’t text your ex if you recently broke up. And as a bonus, I will tell you about 5 effective ways to cope with the unbearable desire to hear from them. I’m Victoria Khmeleva, a relationship consultant. If this topic interests you, be sure to like and subscribe to my channel! After a break up you are probably feeling sad, broken hearted, confused, and you don’t know what you can do to make him come back. Should you call him, explain yourself and apologise? Cry into the phone and beg him to come back?