The first time my husband and I had sex it was surreal. I enjoyed connecting with the person I loved on a deeper physical level. However, the morning after I couldn't help but feel guilty and confused. My mom left education about sex up to the church and the message I received was that sex is for men, my body is not my own and my job is to bring pleasure to my husband, that sex is a sin, your desires are a sin, being attracted to others is a sin and that if you slip up and have sex before marriage mind as well book a first-class ticket to hell because your life is over. Now that I have been married for 10 years and have experienced sex in many different facets I  have grown so much from where I initially started. I understand that everyone's story of sex may not be like mine but I would love to share what I have learned since then that has really helped me make sex the sensual, joyful, sometimes hilarious pleasurable experience that it should be. So in today's episode, we will be discussing 5 things that I have learned about sex that have transformed my sex life. Podcast Mentions Kevin and Melissa Fredricks: Marriage Be Hard! Book Marriage.com: Sexual Coercion Free Digital Books: Z-Library Libby Audiobook Library: https://www.overdrive.com/apps/libby/ BetterHelp: https://www.betterhelp.com/ TalkSpace: https://www.talkspace.com/ CBT Thought Diary: https://cbtthoughtdiary.com/