Episodes
Send us a Text Message.Are you struggling with communication in your relationship? Do you feel like no matter how much you talk, you're just not being heard? Or maybe every conversation turns into a battle, leaving you both more disconnected than ever before?Welcome to Love Shack Live, the podcast dedicated to helping couples create meaningful and lasting connections. I'm Staci Bartley, joined by my co-host and lover, Tom, and our daughter, Brooke. Together, we're here to guide you through re...
Published 05/25/24
Send us a Text Message.Do you often feel as if the person you cherish is pushing your emotional and personal boundaries to their limits? Are you questioning whether the emotional distance that has crept into your relationship can ever truly be bridged? You are not alone in these feelings. Welcome to "Love Shack Live," a sanctuary for those who find themselves at a crossroads in their relationship, wrestling with conflicts and yearning for a connection that's both genuine and enduring.In this ...
Published 05/18/24
Send us a Text Message.Have you ever felt a creeping sense of resentment in your relationship, not because of a single argument, but due to a series of small misunderstandings and unmet expectations? Perhaps it's the silent assumption that you'll always prioritize your relationship over personal time, or the expectation to handle stress in ways that suit your partner better than they do you.Welcome to Love Shack Live, a haven for those standing at the crossroads of their relationships, strugg...
Published 05/11/24
Send us a Text Message.In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the emotional complexities that couples face when their relationship teeters on the edge of ending. The "Land of Maybe" is a symbolic space where uncertainty dominates, and decisions about the future of a relationship remain unresolved, often causing intense emotional turmoil. This episode addresses individuals' critical questions and feelings when one partner has already filed for divorce or is contemplating separation. Throu...
Published 05/04/24
Send us a Text Message.What does it truly mean to be brave when faced with separation or divorce? These words are not just terms; they are thresholds that challenge our emotional resilience and force us into the depths of our fears. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a beacon for those navigating through the often tumultuous waters of relationship conflicts and emotional chasms. This is where we confront the most intimidating challenges, transforming fear into a catalyst for personal growth and deep...
Published 04/27/24
Send us a Text Message.Picture this: you're strolling hand in hand with your partner when they gently utter those words that make your heart race: "I feel like we could both use a little space." In that moment, fear, confusion, and uncertainty grip you. Welcome to Love Shack Live, where we delve into the depths of relationships, seeking to mend emotional divides and forge lasting connections.In this episode, hosts Staci, Tom, and Brooke Bartley peel back the layers of separation, revealing it...
Published 04/20/24
Send us a Text Message. "Can we really grow closer by being apart?" It's a question that haunts anyone who hears, "I need space," from a partner. If you're wrestling with feelings of loneliness and confusion in this space, you're not alone. This episode of the Love Shack takes you on a journey through the twists and turns of relational space, turning separation into a chance to deepen and heal your bond. Join us as we delve into weeks three and four of our Love Limbo Roadmap, focusing on...
Published 04/13/24
Feeling the emotional tug-of-war when your partner whispers, "I need some space"? It's like walking a tightrope between giving them room and fearing the growing silence might become a chasm too wide to cross. Welcome to Love Shack Live, the sanctuary for those standing at love's crossroads, where daily challenges and emotional distances put to test the bonds we cherish most. If you're seeking a path back to a connection that's not just enduring but heartfelt and genuine, you've found your...
Published 04/06/24
Have you ever felt the frustration of speaking without being heard, your words floating in a void between you and your partner? It's a silent trap many couples find themselves in, not from a lack of love but from a profound disconnect in truly understanding each other. Welcome to Love Shack Live, your haven for navigating the turbulent waters of relationship crossroads, aspiring to rebuild a bond that's both genuine and enduring. In this episode, we dive into an often overlooked yet crucial...
Published 03/30/24
In the stillness of the night, have you found yourself wrestling with thoughts of unresolved arguments and unspoken words with your partner? As the world quiets down, do these concerns grow louder, echoing the depth of your emotional turmoil? You're not wandering through this maze alone. Welcome to the concluding episode of our enlightening series on communication within relationships, brought to you by Love Shack Live.  Throughout this series, we've ventured through the foundations of...
Published 03/23/24
Have you ever found yourself lying awake at night, pondering, "Why don't we talk anymore?" In the silence that has crept into your relationship, there's a longing for the days when conversations flowed effortlessly, and your hearts felt undeniably close. Welcome to this pivotal episode of Love Shack Live, where we delve into the complexities of communication. Today, we're exploring the transformative power of something we whimsically call "fairy dust" and the courage it takes to "Call It...
Published 03/16/24
Feeling utterly alone even when you're just inches away from your partner is a heart-wrenching reality many of us face.  It's like shouting into a void, desperately hoping for an echo, only to be met with silence. This profound sense of disconnection, where heartfelt conversations once flourished, now replaced by an invisible barrier, is a pain point many couples face. The arguments that seem to endlessly circle, the words choked back by a mixture of pride and fear, and the feeling of walking...
Published 03/09/24
Have you ever felt the ground give way beneath you when trust is shattered? "I don't trust you anymore" - these five words can mark the beginning of a heart-wrenching journey through doubt and pain. But what if it could also mark the start of a beautiful quest towards healing and understanding? Welcome to Love Shack Live, your sanctuary for navigating the stormy seas of love and trust. Join us as we delve into the delicate art of weaving trust back into the fabric of our relationships. In...
Published 03/02/24
In the dance of love, the steps aren't always in sync. Are you and your partner finding yourselves on a tightrope, balancing the need for closeness with the necessity of space? Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those standing at the crossroads of their relationship, seeking to mend the growing gaps and reignite a flame that burns true and bright. In today's episode, we delve into the heart of your concerns and explore the nuanced ebb and flow of commitment, the delicate balance...
Published 02/24/24
Do you feel a growing emotional gap in your relationship, a sense that the deep, intimate connection you once shared is slipping away? In the hustle of daily life, it's easy to find ourselves longing for a bond that goes beyond the surface, yet feeling unsure how to reclaim that profound closeness we crave. This longing for deeper intimacy isn't just about being understood; it's about being truly received by another—heart and soul. But the path to rekindling this connection often feels...
Published 02/18/24
Are you waking up each day, feeling like you're walking on eggshells, sharing a home but not a life with your partner? The reality for many of us is a relationship filled with daily conflicts and a growing emotional gap, where silent expectations and unvoiced agreements cast a shadow over our once vibrant connection. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a beacon of hope for those at a relationship crossroads, craving a connection that feels true and heartfelt. I'm Stacey Bartley, joined by my co-host...
Published 02/10/24
Do you find yourself trapped in the relentless tug-of-war between staying and leaving, caught in a cycle of conflict and emotional distance that seems insurmountable? You are not alone. This episode of Love Shack Live is a beacon for those standing at the crossroads of their relationships, yearning for a genuine connection and a love that lasts. Join us, Staci and Tom Bartley alongside, our daughter Brooke, as we delve into the heart of relationship struggles — the daunting "land of maybe"...
Published 02/03/24
In the quiet moments of a relationship, when your partner asks for space, do you find yourself adrift in a sea of uncertainty, your heart anchored in worry while life relentlessly moves on? If you're standing at a relationship crossroads, facing the chasm of emotional distance and yearning for a connection that's both genuine and enduring, welcome to Love Shack LIve. This episode ventures into the complex dance of love and space. It's a sanctuary for souls navigating the stormy waters of...
Published 01/27/24
Ever wonder why some relationships stand the test of time, while others crumble? Welcome to this week’s insightful episode of Love Shack Live, where we delve into the delicate yet powerful dynamics of love and partnership. I'm Staci Bartley, alongside my cohost and partner, Tom, and our daughter, Brooke. Today, we’re not just talking about love; we’re exploring the art of preserving it. At the heart of every relationship lies a series of small, often overlooked actions that can either build...
Published 01/20/24
In the quiet aftermath of a plea for space, many of us find ourselves at a relationship crossroads, questioning the unspoken needs and silent cries for attention we've overlooked. Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for navigating the complexities of love and relationships. Join us as we guide you through the emotional maze and help rebuild genuine, lasting bonds. Today's episode asks a poignant question: Why do we often delay addressing our relationship issues, leading to a point where...
Published 01/13/24
🌟 New Year, New You? Let's Dive Deeper... 🌟 Have you ever kickstarted a new year filled with determination and dreams, only to watch them dissipate as life unfolds? This all-too-familiar scenario doesn't just apply to resolutions; it mirrors our relationships. The deep connections and dreams we hold dear often get clouded by our focus on fears and negatives, overshadowing the fulfillment we truly seek. Welcome to Love Shack Live, where we navigate the intricate maze of relationships,...
Published 01/06/24
Have you ever wondered why minor disagreements in your relationship suddenly spiral into major conflicts, leaving you feeling isolated and misunderstood? Welcome to this episode of Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those navigating the complex pathways of relationships.  In today's episode, we're diving into a topic that, while often overlooked, plays a pivotal role in the dynamics of our relationships: defensiveness. Defensiveness creeps into our interactions, often unnoticed, turning simple...
Published 12/30/23
Have you ever felt the haunting emptiness when a loved one steps back, leaving a void echoing with unspoken fears? Welcome to Love Shack Live, a sanctuary where hearts at a crossroads find guidance and hope.  In today's soul-stirring episode, we delve into the heart-wrenching experience of separation in relationships. We explore the gripping fear and uncertainty that envelops us when our partner seeks space. Have you ever found yourself tormented by doubts - questioning your worth, pondering...
Published 12/24/23
Caught in the heart-wrenching dilemma of whether to reach out or respect the space in your relationship? You are not alone. Join us on Love Shack Live, a sanctuary for those at a relationship crossroads, yearning to mend daily conflicts and bridge the emotional gap for a bond that feels authentic and enduring. In this episode, we explore the transformative journey of personal growth during times of separation in relationships. How can this period become a gateway to deeper self-discovery and...
Published 12/16/23
In this episode, Staci, Tom & Brooke discuss the importance of navigating space in relationships. They emphasize the need for emotional space and the instinctual need to reconnect and understand oneself. They explore the consequences of ignoring the need for space and the coping mechanisms that often arise during this phase. The Bartleys highlight the benefits of taking planned space in a relationship, including improved communication, mutual understanding, and personal growth. They...
Published 12/09/23