“I’m a sub for my beloved Dom, and he is the absolute center of my universe. He is everything I could ever ask for in a Daddy, a partner and a future husband. He takes amazing care of me in every aspect, and even is funding my college education to be a chemist. Truly, he is amazing to me and the first man I’ve met worthy of being my Daddy. We have a long distance relationship but we see each other weekly- I go to his home of course and immediately switch into the role of caregiver and Babygirl who entertains him, loves him, cares for him, and makes sure his business clients are happy as well. However, within this relationship dynamic which we carry in and out of the bedroom, I was new to being fully submissive in day to day life. I had never had a DD/lg relationship that wasn’t just a kink, so I didn’t know what my Daddy needed and expected, nor how I could as his babygirl express my needs without questioning his power and position. I was raised in a family of women who didn’t feel the same way as I do about relationships which is fine and they support our relationship, but I like to submit to my Daddy and take care of him in every aspect I can. That being said, we both were going through a very stressful and rough patch, and broke up about two months ago. I felt like I couldn’t communicate with him without my message being taken as ‘controlling’ or ‘questioning’. I was lost and heartbroken. I felt like a failure and couldn’t imagine moving on without him.
After finding this podcast I learned on a deeper level to love, support and cherish my Daddy in a way that showed me love and support back that I never knew existed. Thank you both for helping us newer subs who always knew what we wanted but never knew how to execute it in daily life- I truly believe this podcast has fixed my relationship issues. Tonight as I type this I’m on a train to his house to make him and his friends dinner, clean and honor him for the first time since June. Truly, you both do amazing things for this community and allow us to grow and thrive in our relationship styles of choice. Thank you from the bottom of my sparkly pink heart.”
upyrgirl via Apple Podcasts ·
United States of America ·
08/17/19