Happy Valentine's Day, y'all! Today we talk about our plans for the holiday, how it's changed since before having kids, and, in honor of it being a day of appreciation, what we most appreciate about our partners. Valentine's Day may not be as big of a deal or as fun or exciting or sexy as it used to be, but that doesn't mean we can't still show each other we care. It's so easy to fall into a pattern of criticism because we feel overwhelmed, alone, and need help, but focusing on the positive can help us rekindle the love we have for our partners.