In today's deeply personal episode, I take you on a transformative journey through my own experiences with the unconventional mantra, "If it's not a hell yes, then it's a hell no."    At first glance, it may seem counterintuitive. But as I peel back the layers of my life's pivotal moments, you'll see how this philosophy has reshaped my perspective, empowering me to chase my true passions and let go of perceived obligations.    From a friend’s career crossroads to personal relationships, I share the raw and real stories of an enthusiastic "hell yes" and moment of a resolute "hell no", teaching me profound lessons about boundaries, self-worth, and true commitment.    This episode is a heartfelt invitation for you to find strength in saying "no" when everything feels like a "yes", and in doing so, discovering the truest version of yourself.    Join me and be inspired to embrace the power of clear choices and authentic living.   Let’s do this!   Barbie Loved this episode?! Your review helps this show grow (and it's good Karma!) Send me a voice message! https://www.speakpipe.com/BarbieKalev Connect with me:Instagram: @Barbie.Kalev Keep the party going! Join my FB Group:THE MAGNETIC PORTAL with Dr. Barbie Kalev  If you’d like to join my network marketing team with me as your sponsor, shoot me a message on IG, FB, or [email protected] Andrea Crowder’s program I’m taking The Pleasure Model. CLICK HERE.   One Month October Group Mentoring On Voxer: https://www.barbiekalev.com/offers/yZ3rM82g   1-Week Private Voxer Mentoring:  https://www.barbiekalev.com/offers/AkXXF7Hk   3-Month 1:1 Private Coaching:  https://www.barbiekalev.com/offers/7sGmc8vB   Jen Norlin’s Human Design Website:  https://www.truenorthalignment.net/more-about-me