In this episode, we talk with Columbia Law School professor Elizabeth Emens about the disproportionate way couples split up life's administrative work.  She explains her research methods, the "sticky" nature of this type of work, and why it's often better to revert to paper and pen rather than a to-do list on your phone.  Later, we find out strategies on asking your partner for help.  She's the author of,  'Life Admin: How I Learned to Do Less, Do Better, and Live More'.  Her website is https://www.elizabethemens.com/   If you struggle with hair loss, whether it’s increased shedding, a widening part, thinning brows or sparse lashes, check out Nulastin.  It just might be the game changer you’ve been waiting for!  Nulastin serums are transforming---unlocking technology to give you thicker, fuller looking hair, brows and lashes in as soon as 6 weeks. Nobody Told Me listeners get 30% off!  Just go to nulastin.com/nobody and use code NOBODY30 for 30% off.   Shopify is the all-in-one commerce platform that makes it simple for anyone to start, run and grow your own successful business. With Shopify, you’ll create an online store, discover new customers, and grow the following that keeps them coming back. Shopify makes getting paid simple, by instantly accepting every type of payment. With Shopify’s single dashboard, you can manage orders, shipping and payments from anywhere. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at Shopify.com/nobody.