Oh baby things are getting hot n’ heavy this week as Spencer discusses some stories of people who discovered some *personal* items from the dearly departed, but first Madison is breaking down everything you need to know about viewing cremations. We’ve got an obituary for a guy who loved a 4-letter word, and one for a man with a wild collection. Don’t worry, we didn’t forget, we’ve also got some dumb.ass.criminallllllls!  Buy our book: prh.com/obitchuary Get your Merch: wonderyshop.com/obitchuary Come see us live on tour: obitchuarypodcast.com Join our Patreon: Patreon.com/cultliter New episodes come out every Thursday for free, with 1-week early access for Wondery+ subscribers. Follow along online: @obitchuarypod on Twitter & Instagram @obitchuarypodcast on TikTok Check out Spencer’s other podcast Cult Liter wherever you’re listening! Write to us: [email protected] Spencer Henry & Madison Reyes PO Box 18149 Long Beach, CA 90807 Sources: https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/name/michael-bonakowski-obituary?id=53831898 https://www.fox23.com/news/tulsa-man-in-custody-after-allegedly-stealing-beer-crashing-car-into-business/article_9772a186-8c6f-11ee-8db2-33bc3537be61.html https://www.bradleyfuneralhomes.com/can-you-witness-the-cremation-of-a-loved-one/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwCPA4U8nvY&t=26s https://www.kpbs.org/news/local/2023/03/23/new-crematorium-san-diego-county-escondido-witness-cremations https://www.usurnsonline.com/cremation/witness-cremation/ https://everloved.com/articles/funeral-industry/can-you-watch-a-cremation/ https://beyondthedash.com/blog/funeral-planning/what-is-a-witness-cremation/7435 https://www.betterplaceforests.com/blog/cremation/average-cost-of-cremation/#:~:text=Some%20crematoriums%20offer%20the%20option%20for%20family%20members,add%20an%20additional%20fee%20of%20%24100%20to%20%24300 https://everloved.com/articles/funeral-customs/japanese-funeral-traditions-customs-and-beliefs/ https://blog.sevenponds.com/cultural-perspectives/viewing-or-witnessing-a-cremation-in-america https://www.funeraldirect.co/witnessing-a-loved-ones-cremation-is-it-right-for-you/ https://www.liveoakpetservices.com/services/witnessed-cremation/ https://www.frazerconsultants.com/2016/12/why-families-should-witness-cremation/https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/ka67ee/have_you_ever_found_something_like_a_sex_toy_when/ https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/njx7cm/my_auntdeceased_just_passed_away_and_i_found_her/ https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/7ppzxc/if_i_die_my_family_will_eventually_come_across_my/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/obituaries/ralph-whittington-erotica-collector-extraordinaire-dies-at-74/2019/08/17/267c63b6-c051-11e9-a5c6-1e74f7ec4a93_story.html https://www.liveoakpetservices.com/services/witnessed-cremation/ https://radiant-heart.net/witnessed-cremations/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.