Questions: - How do I find my tribe? - Should you be careful when sharing self-help advice? Topics Discussed: - The fear of failing alone - Our capacity for self-deception - Breaking norms - Parents motivation for sending kids to college - Who gets blamed when our choices go wrong - What financial guru’s do vs. what financial guru’s advise - When people give you advice, they give you advice they think you can handle, not what they necessarily think is best - Neediness attracts neediness - Exploring your interests instead of focusing on finding a tribe - Theoretical man - Fear of being seen as privileged