In this episode we explore two gripping listener submissions that dive deep into love and stubbornness. The first story chronicles an over 20-year relationship where both partners have thought about marriage but neither has been willing to make the leap—or even fly out to see one another. We break down the complexities of unresolved feelings and what keeps them trapped in indecision. In the second submission, we tackle the topic of weaponized low self-esteem, leading to a discussion. With insightful commentary on relationships, personal growth, and the emotional traps we fall into, this episode keeps you hooked from start to finish. Send us your relationship questions: [email protected] YouTube | https://www.youtube.com/@onlyblackkids Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/@onlyblackkids TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@onlyblackkids 00:00 Homeroom03:53 Robert as First Gentleman08:29 ATBK: To Wed Or Not to Wed21:42 Response33:09 ATBK: I screamed!!36:54 Weaponized Low Self-Esteem58:07 Venus Fly Trap