We’ve all experienced the confusion, insecurity, and uncertainty that  comes with feeling ignored. Maybe you keep sending messages to a friend  who has stopped replying. Or, perhaps you’ve heard nothing after what  felt like a successful date. No matter the context, you're left with a slew of unanswered  questions and uncomfortable emotions. But what should you do when this  type of problem arises? You might feel inclined to bombard the person until you get a reply  or you may feel the urge to cut the person out of your life altogether.  As it turns out, neither of these extreme responses maximizes your  chances of a resolution. We'll explore the seven most effective steps to take when someone is ignoring you, with a focus on how to display self-respect without accidentally veering into harassment. Along the way, we'll also  give some consideration to how you can reduce your chances of being  ignored in the future.