I hope you are finding a theme on this podcast. I am always trying to bring you conversations about real-life problems that us moms face on a daily basis. Also, I want to always point us back to Jesus as well as practical ideas to move forward.  Today’s episode is one of those issues we face on a regular basis: Alyssa Bethke is passionate about this idea of “being all and doing all.” She really digs into why women struggle with this. My intentions aren’t always bad as a “doer” - they just aren’t sustainable. I would love to fix it all, handle it all and make sure everyone in my life is happy. I really, really struggled with this in my 20s and 30s. However, I am so excited that I have grown in this area and found ways to trust what he’s calling me to do - and only those things.  I love how Alyssa asks herself this question, “Lord, what is mine to do?” Don’t miss this part at the end when she gives us how she practically handles the pressure of many demands on us. As moms, this pressure to help, fix and support our kids is very real. It is very hard to face that reality - that there is never enough time or energy to do and be all. And that is where our faith comes in. How can we really lean into God so that we know what is ours to take and then we have peace surrendering the rest? In this episode, we discuss: The struggle of doing it all as a momThe gift of boundaries and how to say noFinding rest in God’s grace and what he calls us to do Enjoy! Courtney Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:18 The Struggle of Trying to Do It All 08:11 Setting Boundaries and Saying No 11:08 Seeking God's Guidance in Each Season 14:58 The Desire for Control and Predictability 16:16 Finding Rest in God's Grace 16:48 The Struggle of Control and the Call to Surrender 19:05 Honesty and Unmet Expectations in Our Relationship with God 20:33 Parenting: Trusting God and Surrendering Control 25:55 Trusting in God's Goodness and Seeking His Guidance Connect with Pardon The Mess: Christian Parenting Pardon The Mess  Courtney DeFeo Get your 2024-2025 prayer journal, A Life of Faith Resources from today’s show: Alyssa Bethke Instagram  Jeffandalyssa.com When Doing It All, Is Undoing You - new book Gamechanger Amazon List Amazon List - more ideas White Bird Movie Carpool Conversations Christian Parenting store Pardon The Mess is a part of the Christian Parenting Podcast Network. For more information visit www.ChristianParenting.org Our Sponsors: * Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: www.ixl.com Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy