Ever feel like every request turns into a battle with your kids? You ask them to put their shoes on, help with chores, or even just sit down for dinner, and instead of cooperation, you get resistance or silence. It’s frustrating, right? But here’s the big question: What if their refusal has less to do with defiance and more about how they FEEL about the relationship? Today, I tackle why our kids may not cooperate and how it relates to our connection. I explore how common parenting techniques, like punishments and rewards, often backfire, creating distance instead of understanding. If we shift our approach, it can transform daily interactions with our kids, bringing more peace and cooperation into our homes without resorting to punitive measures. In This Episode: Why do kids refuse to listen or cooperateDefiance or disconnection, what’s really happening?The negative effects of punishments and rewardsHow to use empathy and play to encourage cooperationAdjusting expectations for more harmony at home 🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a discovery call by sending an email to: [email protected] 💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review. 📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED! Follow Peace and Parenting: YouTube: @peaceandparentingla Instagram: @peaceandparenting Facebook: @peaceandparentingla Peace and Parenting Facebook Group Want to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cure Our Sponsors: * Birdwatching enthusiasts check out Feathersnap: https://www.feathersnapcam.com/ * Check out Curex: getcurex.com * Check out Mochi Health and use my code PEACE for a great deal: www.joinmochi.com * Need a new plant for your home? Check out the Palmstreet App: https://i.palmstreet.app/tjja/peace Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy