All talk (or complain) and nothing changes. We might get louder, we might be more miserable and frustrated, but the teens are still teening and the parents are still parenting... as the months pass but the unbearable moments we want to avoid are just on repeat.  WHY!? It can be maddening when you don't understand the reason behind the chaos. Listen in, because I'm going to make sense of the madness and then explain what actually fixes the issue so that when you see something that needs improvement, you're all set.  (Spoiler: It's only a couple of steps and they aren't what you think.) For a free 30 minute "best next step" conversation about your situation, book at HeatherFrazier.com