In this episode, Kiki gets emotional with Chelsea Devantez, author of her new memoir 'I Shouldn't Be Telling You This' and host of the Glamorous Trash podcast, as she tells her story of surviving domestic violence and finding out she was donor conceived. Together they discusses the process of writing her memoir, including why she was told it was too dangerous to tell her story, which lead to her redacting large portions of the book and ultimately turning the pages into a gown. Chelsea shares the emotional journey of searching for her biological father and the painful truths she discovered along the way. She also talks about the support she found in her strong female friendships as she highlights the importance of sharing personal stories and finding the courage to be vulnerable. @chelseadevantez Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices